Found You!
When I run I use my phone to keep track of my running. Before it can log the info about my run, it first must find me (my location). Sometimes I am moving or there may be something in the area that interferes with the signal and the ability to find me.
As is in our lives...many times we allow distractions to distance us from God. Where did he go? He never leaves us and as soon as we STOP and listen we will hear His still small voice. This changes our perspective and we are then able to move forward!
So this morning...I got to the starting point of my run...I stopped and within a few seconds the application found my location and then I hit start and headed off on my run!
Remember when you can't seem to find God...STOP and LISTEN and you will hear Him!
EveryMinuteEveryDay
Thursday, July 19, 2012
Monday, July 16, 2012
Analogy-One Step at a Time
I got up late this morning and was really debating with
myself whether or not I was going to run, but if there is one thing I have
learned while training for this marathon is your mind must tell your body to
keep going even when your body wants to stop…so I could find no logical reason
not to run this morning…so I ran. The first part of my run is mostly
uphill…some hills are smaller than others, but it is generally uphill…I was
looking right in front of me and just telling myself to take one more step…then
one more step…made it through all the hills and as I was coming around the
corner by Rampart where you can see the expanse of the mountains the song “God
of this City” started playing…Yes… you are God of this City and you are going
to do amazing things, as we take one step at a time! Then I continued
running…looking way ahead of myself I started running with all the confidence
in the world, as I was now going to be on level ground or even some downhill,
but then God brought an analogy to mind and that was that so many times in our
lives we call on Him when life is hard and we can barely take one step forward,
but then when things are going good, we go about life thinking we have this
well under control…He wants to guide our every step the easy ones and the hard
runs…so for the remainder of the run, I ran looking just one step in front of
me and I had the best run yet since I started my training...in fact I even beat
my yesterday’s record…my new pace is not 11.33, but 11.14-Thank you Jesus for
reminding me to allow you to guide every step in my life!
We Fall Down and We Get Up…
Before leaving on my run this morning, I asked God
to reveal whatever He wanted me to hear today! He has been teaching me
different life lessons through my running and today was no different, though it
would have been nice to learn this lesson without it being so literal! I was
about 3 minutes into my run, when I recall my phone leaving my hand and I
slowly began to get closer to the cement…I actually had a moment to think about
what was happening and what ran through my mind was…I am falling and there is
really nothing I can do to stop this from happening…at that moment my knee
scraped against the cement and my wrist did the same. I got up and my first
thought was…well guess that does it for my run this morning…Really Cindy, you
are going to give up that quickly…so I checked out my injuries, squirted some
water on them and I finished my run, asking God to just help me finish…He did
that and more…He taught me another life lesson…In life we will fall down, but
He is right there to pick us back up. In 2 Corinthians 4:8-10 it says, “We are
pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed,
but not driven to despair. We are hunted down, but never abandoned by God. We get knocked down, but we are not destroyed. Through
suffering, our bodies continue to share in the death of Jesus so that the life
of Jesus may also be seen in our bodies.” When you get knocked down…don’t let
the enemy have his way…allow God to get you back up!
Evidence of my lesson today....
Evidence of my lesson today....
Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Stand Up
Leadership Summit 2011
Session Three
“Stand Up” by Cory Booker
“Stand Up” by Cory Booker
*Regardless
of the storms in our lives, we must be willing to stand.
*You have
a choice: will you grow dumb, fat and happy as you feast on what was provided
for you OR, will you metabolize your blessings and stand up and use them for
what they were intended for?
*Don’t
let the world tell you who you are…You were born unique.
*Don’t
let the world defeat you or seduce you into mediocrity.
*You have
access to untold opportunities…you must claim them.
*In the
midst of people who seem to be reaching higher than you, head for the roof!
*The
world you see outside of you will always be a reflection of what you have
inside you.
*Never
let the world outside of you dim the hope and courage inside of you.
*Be the
change you want to see in the world.
*The only
way to make a change in this world is for it to start with one’s self.
*If it is
to be its up to me.
*Before
you tell me what you want to teach or preach, show me first how you choose to
live and give.
*There
are so many distractions from the profound potential to do God’s work in this
world.
*Right
now, in this moment, YOU can change the world.
*Don’t
miss the opportunity God has put right in front of you to show your truth to
the world.
*We have
one choice every second of every day… to accept life’s circumstances as they
are or to take responsibility for changing them.
*We are stars…if we don’t live life brilliantly, we won’t leave a
legacy of light and illumination.
*Stand up and bring light into the darkness. God gives us the
power, but we get distracted with our own stuff.
*Don’t trip over people God has put in front of you. They are
there for a reason.
*Let us now STAND Up. Let us STAND and tell our truth to a world
that is yearning for it. Let us STAND because people stood for us, fought for
us, bled for us. Let us STAND…In this world we don’t get everything we pay for,
but we must pay for everything we get. Let us STAND, because of what Martin
Luther King said… change will never roll in on the wheels of inevitability, but
it is carried in on the backs of soldiers who will stand and fight for it. Let
us STAND, because those five words… “Liberty and Justice For All” cannot just
be a pledge, they must be a purpose and a passion every day and in every way.
Let us STAND UP with all of our courage and our dignity and our love and if we
STAND like this we the people will find a way to get to the roof!
Monday, June 11, 2012
Action Trumps Everything
Leadership Summit 2011
Session Two
“Action Trumps Everything” by Len Schlesinger
“Action Trumps Everything” by Len Schlesinger
Getting our vision from the reality of the Here
to the possibilities of the There…
*Martin
Luther King… “I have a dream”
-It took Martin Luther King 3-4 years of smashing the Here (current reality) to get to the
-It took Martin Luther King 3-4 years of smashing the Here (current reality) to get to the
There (energizing people with the vision of what could be)
*We
must be clear about the aspects of Here before we can go There
*We
get a vision…We are excited about a reality that does not exist and those whom
we are sharing our vision with are quite happy right where they are at…so how
do we move them from the Here to the There? You must show people how
unacceptable current reality is before you can move people to a new, unknown
reality.
*Entrepreneurship
has the power to go a long way in providing for the kind of future we aspire we
want to have.
*Believe
in the future by creating first.
*Most
stories being told about successful entrepreneurs are complete nonsense…not a
little, but complete.
-Many entrepreneurs who write a book about their success are actually telling a
story they would like to read about their life
-Many do not start out with a Big idea
-Many do not have a sharply defined vision
-It is not genetic
-Many do not start out with a Big idea
-Many do not have a sharply defined vision
-It is not genetic
*Entrepreneurship
is a discipline and can be learned
*We
are all entrepreneurs, but too few of us get to practice it.
*We
must reinvent ourselves at least 3-5 times in our career.
*Entrepreneurs
realize that they cannot predict the future.
-If you can’t predict the future than create it.
*Start
with things you care about
-Not where are the good opportunities, but rather what do I want to do…what am I passionate about.
-You see, in order to get from the Here to the There, we must have a passion for the vision we want people to get excited about.
-Not where are the good opportunities, but rather what do I want to do…what am I passionate about.
-You see, in order to get from the Here to the There, we must have a passion for the vision we want people to get excited about.
*Entrepreneurs
see what is available to them and then they act.
-You can sit and think, but in order to move to the There, you must act upon your thinking
-pay for only what you can afford and want to
-take small steps forward with what you have at hand
-You can sit and think, but in order to move to the There, you must act upon your thinking
-pay for only what you can afford and want to
-take small steps forward with what you have at hand
*We
all have the capacity to make a difference
*Have
friends and resources nearby to help
*You
can sell people or you can enroll people
Why
don’t people move?
*They
are caught up with what they are trying to do…Don’t worry about what you want
to do and start worrying about what your next step will be.
*We
don’t want to take action cause we are afraid of failure.
-60% of “smart” people fail
-failure=learning things that no one knows
-failure=try again with experience
-more ventures fail then succeed
-60% of “smart” people fail
-failure=learning things that no one knows
-failure=try again with experience
-more ventures fail then succeed
Do
you want to be an Entrepreneur?
*Know
what you want
*Stop obsessing with what you need to do and start with the means at hand
*Be alert and make reality your friend
*Take steps according to your means and what you can afford to pay
*Bring other people with you
*Be flexible with what you want and how you do it
*Stop obsessing with what you need to do and start with the means at hand
*Be alert and make reality your friend
*Take steps according to your means and what you can afford to pay
*Bring other people with you
*Be flexible with what you want and how you do it
This
system…
Gets
more people trying to do things and gets them to do things sooner and gets them
to do it more times and gets them to failing sooner, which enables the start of
another attempt and gives people the opportunity for multiple simultaneous adventures.
“Action
Trumping Everything…you get more times at bat in the same elapsed time, thus
making your personal success much more likely and sooner and increasing the aggregate
number of successful ventures for society as a whole. Thereby taking us all on
an incredible powerful journey from the HERE’s that we have smashed to the
THERE’s that we would like to live with.”
Sunday, June 10, 2012
Five Critical Questions
Leadership
Summit 2011
Session One
“Five Critical Questions” by Bill Hybels
“Five Critical Questions” by Bill Hybels
1. What is my current challenge level at work?
*Under Challenged – don’t have much of a to do list and so
don’t get much accomplished at work…spend time ordering things on the computer,
spending time on facebook for fun not ministry related, count the minutes until
it is time to go home…
*Appropriately Challenged – have a to do list and get most of it done; able to be there for the family in the evening
*Dangerously Over Challenged – upon getting up in the morning
you wonder how in the world will I ever get through my to do list in the next
month let alone today; when you get to work more things get added to that list
and you end up not accomplishing much of anything; you are so stressed that you
are no good to your family or anyone around you…very dangerous place to be.
So, where is
the best place to be? Bill stated that the best place to be is right above
Appropriately Challenged.
MY THOUGHTS: I would have to agree, cause if we stay at Appropriately Challenged
then we could become stagnant…we are getting things done and we are serving our
family well, but it may not be stretching us to move to the next level and to
grow.
We must be
challenging ourselves in order to be good leaders. We are no good to anyone if
we live in crazy land. We must take time to replenish our leadership bucket.
Could there
be times when our job requires us to live in crazy land for a period of time
(Bill's example: we have 22 services on Christmas Eve/Easter…lol)? Yes, but try to
prepare youreselves for those times and get out just as soon as you can.
What will
replenish your bucket? These should be moments away from your work…maybe doing
a hobby. This reminds me of the question that Matt asks us on WVC staff, Emotional Goal…What
is it that recharges us emotionally?
Organizations
could also fit into these categories…offering too many things or not offering
enough.
MY THOUGHTS: Especially in a church, I believe we must be offering an
Appropriate amount of activities that will keep people involved, moving to the
next level and growing in their walk with God and in the calling that He has
upon their life.
2. What is the plan to dealing with challenging people in our organization?
*You must
determine who those people are. Sit down with the managers of your company and
have them put down each person on their team in the order of who they would let
go of first if they were told that labor must be reduced by 50%.
*KEY to our
future…Keep and Maintain FANTASTIC people and deal with those who are not
fantastic anymore.
*How long
will we allow people to have bad attitudes? We must deal with this as soon as
we see the pattern develop. Once you have sat down and talked with the person
than a good time frame could be…in 30 days there must be a change of attitude.
*How do you
handle under performers? We must sit down with the person as soon as we see
this pattern developing. We coach them, come up with a plan to assist them,
encourage them and then decide the time frame to when this must be
resolved…possibly 3 months.
*How do you
handle a situation where the capacity of a role changes? This happens when the
gifts and talents of a FANTASTIC individual no longer has the necessary
elasticity in the role. The requirements are above what they are able to
fulfill. It is not that they have a bad attitude or that they are an under
performer rather it just means that the job they were in has changed and is not
a good fit for them with those changes.
Challenging
people are not happy people.
If you don’t
deal with challenging people then you will discourage the positive and
FANTASTIC people and you will lose them.
3. Are you naming, facing and resolving problems in your organization?
*Life Cycle
Diagram – Accelerating, Booming, Decelerating, Tanking
*Evaluate
each ministry to see where it fits into the cycle
*A few that
Bill mentioned that they were in the part of Decelerating were…Volunteers,
Stewardship, Evangelism…kind of reminds me of where Woodmen is as it relates to Volunteers and Stewardship.
*Bill stated
that they put together a team for each of these areas and those teams brought
to the table new ideas in order to take them back to Accelerating.
MY
THOUGHTS: What ministries at Woodmen (or in your organization) are
moving towards the Decelerating part of this cycle? What events/ministries
inside each of our core ministries(OSP; Human Resources; Commarts; Experience
Department(Men, Women, Small Groups, Sports & Rec); Students; Children’s;
Pastoral Care; Worship Arts) need to be evaluated? How are we currently working
towards making sure that some of these things are not headed for the end of the
cycle-tanking?
4. When was the last time that you re-examined the core of what your
organization is about?
*Is our
vision clear?
*What’s at
the core of what we do?
*Bill gave
an example of a car dealership…The manager sat down with all the employees and
asked them what they felt the core of their organization was about. Some of
what they started to say…sell cars; sell and fix cars and then one person
stated that it was to provide a transportation solution to people. That then
became the core of their company.
MY THOUGHTS: This caused them to provide many other services, making them a
successful company not only financially, but in how they responded and cared
for the needs of people.
*Churches are
in the people transformation business. Describe in 5-words, using no hyphenated
words and no “God” words, the central message of the good news of Jesus Christ…
Example
given by Bill…
1 - Love
2 -Evil
3 -Rescue
c -Choice
5 -Restore
First and
foremost we must love people…there is so much evil in this world and we are in
need of a rescue, however we have to make that choice and when we do we will be
restored to the person that God has called us to be.
5. Have you had your leadership bell rung lately?
*Leaders
rarely learn anything new unless they have had their bell rung.
*We are
tired of being stuck, but we have lost our boldness and our faith, which would
allow us to move forward.
*When we are
sick and tired of being stuck, it is then that we will bring action in order to
move forward.
*Bold
solutions to Stubborn problems
*There is
too much at stake in this fallen world to be leaders in a fetus state.
*Bill gave
an example…He takes the other 4 Founders of Willow Creek for a time
away…They were celebrating 35 years…One of them
mentioned the thought of who might hang it up over the next 5 years…who will
make it to 40…then one guy said…what if we made the next 5 years the best
years?
MY THOUGHTS: Why can’t my next 5 years be the best years? Why can't the next 5 years be your best years? What will it take to move you forward?
Friday, June 8, 2012
Goals
Just a little over a week ago, on Memorial
Day…the first day that we were to begin putting action to those goals we gave
to Matt…I was on a morning run and God spoke very clearly…I spent most of that
day putting down those thoughts!
Last fall my son and I were talking…we were
talking about his dreams and goals for his life and some of the things he
wanted to do…He spoke these words to me and they have been a milestone for me
as I moved forward from that point…they gave me a new perspective and got me
thinking/dreaming/setting goals…He said, “Mom you are never too old to dream
and don’t wait to pursue those dreams/goals when you have your life all
together.” Those may not have been the exact words, but that is the message
that I received…
Okay…so I began thinking and processing and
dreaming and God revealed a project that He wanted me to work on that was
directly related to my passion in life. As I worked through this project there
were times I really felt that I must have gotten the wrong message from God
because this was just too difficult…it was at those moments that He said, put
down the pen and let me write and He did just that…He wrote-it wasn’t me-it was
God working in me and through me!
Then came February and we were getting ready
to launch several Foundations classes and one was on Heaven and Hell, taught by
Andrew Hess. I really felt that God wanted me to actually participate in this
class…okay, but would this be a class on Theology and if so do I really need
this in my life right now? His answer was yes you do…Oh yes, did I ever need
this in my life…it was anything but Theology…in one sentence…It changed my
perspective on life Forever!
I could continue giving you example after
example of things God has done in my life…moments with Him on my runs…moments
with Him during my quiet times…moments with Him in the car… but what I want to
share with you is what God gave me on that Memorial Day morning while I was
running.
In Philippians 3:12-14 it says… “I don’t mean
to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached
perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus
first possessed me. No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but
I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies
ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize
for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.”
I googled the word “goals” and this is what I
got…
-A goal or objective is a desired result a person
or a system envisions, plans and commits to achieve—a personal or organizational
desired end-point…
Then I googled the phrase “definition of
goal” and this is what I got…
-synonyms…aim, PURPOSE, target, object, objective, end mark
-The PURPOSE toward
which an endeavor is directed; an objective.
So from the above here is my thought on goals…Goals have a purpose
in our life to move us toward an objective. Without goals in our life, we can
become stagnant and miss the “more” that God has for us.
If you have been on staff at WVC for any length of time you know
that Matt asks for our goals several times a year and one time being around the
end of May for the summer season-Memorial Day through Labor Day. I don’t know
about you, but too many times I get that email and think to myself…how can it
be time to do goals again…I can barely remember what my last goals were, which
probably means that I have not come very close to accomplishing many, if any of
them. Why is this not more important to me? How do I expect to grow if I don’t
set goals and then work towards accomplishing them? What steps do I need to
take to change this? I began to think through these questions and began to pray
about the goals God would have for me for this season.
That is great, but I have done this in the past…I would pray
about it and then life’s distractions would take over and then before I realized
it the due date was either here or gone so now I had to get something on paper,
which meant it was something pretty simple and something I thought would be
reachable…it didn’t really stretch me and since it was just done as an
assignment I never took ownership of those goals. They got printed and filed
away in the back of my journal…
No, not this time…they are not getting filed away…and I want
goals that will stretch me for it is when we are stretched that we grow. So I
started early and I started with the first goal…
Spiritual Goal…What will make me a better person? What
will help me in my ministry and in my family? What will stretch me? Solitude
and Fasting along with continued prayer and journaling. While all of these
require a commitment…Solitude and Fasting for me requires much more of a
commitment as I do very little of these right now…in order for me to go deeper
and grow, I felt like these must be present more in my life. I am dog sitting
for a friend for a couple of weeks in June and I am looking forward to some of
this solitude time, but the challenge will be when I return to my normal
routine…I must figure out a way to make more time for this…I must change my
normal routine in order to grow and go deeper. How about you…what needs to be
in your life to stretch you and help you grow? What will help you in your
ministry…in your family? What will make you a better person?
Physical Goal…For me this was easy this year…I have
been running on and off most of my adult life and I love it! For the past 10 +
years I have wanted to run a Marathon. Since I am all about dreaming and
setting goals…I figured it was time…it was time to put action to this dream I
have had for too long…I knew this would take some time to train for and that I
would need to change my eating habits, but I was really hoping to accomplish
this in 2012… so after almost giving up on my search for a marathon towards the
end of the year and in a warm location and hopefully a somewhat flat area…I
found it…The Cocoa Beach Marathon 2012 in Cocoa Beach Florida on November 25th…here
was the description they gave… “Experience one of the most beautiful waterfront
courses on the east coast. 14 “space” themed aid stations along a partially
shaded mostly flat course”…Thank you Jesus, just as I was about to give up
looking He came through! How will this help me in my ministry? How will this
help me go deeper? How will this help me further His kingdom? Well this requires
great commitment…there will be times when I want to give up, as is in our
ministries and in our own lives…it will require perseverance, which is required
in our ministries and in our lives. This will help me be a stronger person not
only physically but also mentally to be able to experience the “more” God has
for me and carry out His calling in my life! What physical goal will help you
carry out God’s calling in your life?
Emotional Goal-I am refueled emotionally as I see my progress
with the other goals! How about you…think about it…what refuels you
emotionally?
Relational Goal-Relationships with others, whether that be
family, friends, co-workers or strangers, are all important and sometimes we
get so caught up in the “being”-being with God-that we forget that our other
relationships are important to our calling as they are part of the life God has
called us to. So who do you need to spend more time with? To help me accomplish
this goal and to hopefully develop a more consistent pattern of spending time
with the important people in my life I have committed to spend every day for
the month of June with at least one other person…husband, kids, grandkids,
friends! This idea came to me after receiving several emails from restaurants
& stores on June 1st. They could be redeemed for the entire
month of June (my birthday month). It is going well and I am making wonderful
memories, but it is challenging too, as there are days that I don’t want to do
anything…remember it is when we are challenged that we grow!
Reading Goal-This was an area that I really felt that
God wanted to stretch me in…in the past I would just look on my bookshelf and
pull a book or two off the shelf…I think I have had the same book on my goals
for several times. That would be okay, if I was actually making progress but
that was not the case.
This will be a challenge for me, though I love to read…I find
it difficult sometimes to make the time. The time must be before 9pm, at least
for me…I will need to be very intentional about scheduling this time. I wanted
more challenging books…books that made me think…again going deeper and growing.
So one pointer here, never go to Rob if you want help finding a book to read,
as he gave me one book then another and then another and then yet another, at
which time I said thank you so much and I will be going back to my office now!
So, I now have four great books on my reading goal. I may not
get through all four, as I don’t want to just read them to say I read them all,
but rather I want to grow deeper in my relationship with God as I read them…so
I will do my best!
All this said…Even though you have already turned in your
goals-at least I hope you have-I want to challenge you to really look at those
goals you have set for this season. Just because they have been turned in
doesn’t mean you can’t change them or adjust them. Ask yourself some of the
touch questions…pray about each goal…are you stretching yourself…are you
stepping out of your comfort zone…will your goals cause you to grow? Change
them…adjust them if you need to and then move…work hard towards accomplishing
those goals and watch what God will do in your life! And remember it doesn’t
have to be giant steps as you seek to accomplish them, but rather every step
taken forward is a step in the right direction! You can do it!
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